If your IBS used to be reasonably manageable and has suddenly decided to completely change the rules in your 40s or 50s, I can understand why you might be wondering what the hell has happened.
Perhaps you’re more bloated than you used to be. Constipation has become a bigger problem, your bowels have gone the other way and become horribly unpredictable, or foods you’ve eaten quite happily for years suddenly seem to cause trouble. You may have spent years thinking you knew your IBS reasonably well and now it feels as though you’re back at square one.
This subject is particularly relevant to me because I’m 51 and going through menopause myself. I’ve also lived with IBS for most of my life, so I’m already very familiar with the fact that your digestive system doesn’t always behave the same way under different circumstances.
And midlife certainly gives us plenty of different circumstances to work with…
Hormones are changing. Sleep can go completely to pot. Stress may be coming at you from seventeen different directions, your daily routine may look nothing like it did ten years ago and you may be taking medications or supplements you never needed when you were younger.
So, before you decide you’ve suddenly become intolerant to everything in your fridge, it’s worth looking at the bigger picture.
Does IBS actually get worse with age?
Not necessarily. IBS is a disorder of gut-brain interaction, which basically means your digestive system and nervous system are constantly communicating with one another. In IBS, that communication can become more sensitive or less predictable, which can affect bowel movements and how strongly you feel normal digestive sensations such as gas or stretching.
IBS symptoms can wax and wane over time too, which is one of the particularly annoying things about it. Research in midlife women is still fairly limited, but it suggests that hormones are only part of the picture. Stress, sleep, eating habits, activity levels, medication and other health factors may all influence what your gut is doing.
So rather than thinking, “I’m getting older and therefore my IBS is getting worse,” I think a much more useful question is: what else has changed?
Perimenopause, menopause and IBS
Obviously we need to talk about hormones.
Perimenopause happens during exactly the stage of life we’re discussing, and estrogen and progesterone are doing far more in the body than simply controlling periods. Sex hormones may interact with gut motility, visceral sensitivity, the intestinal barrier, immune activity, and the gut-brain connection.
So if your digestion has become more unpredictable around the same time as everything else associated with perimenopause or menopause has started happening, it’s perfectly reasonable to wonder whether the two are connected. You may notice more bloating, changes in constipation or diarrhea, or simply that your stomach feels much more sensitive than it used to be.
But this is where things get a little bit annoying, because I can’t simply tell you, “Yes, it’s your hormones!” I know. Helpful, isn’t it?
It isn’t quite that straightforward. Menopause stage alone doesn’t necessarily explain changes in constipation or diarrhea, and things like stress and anxiety can also play a role. IBS symptoms may change around major hormonal shifts, but stress, sleep, diet, activity, and other lifestyle factors can all be changing at the same time.
That doesn’t mean hormones are irrelevant. Far from it. It simply means they may be one part of a much larger midlife IBS picture rather than the single explanation for everything your bowel is doing.
Then there’s the small matter of stress…
Midlife can be ridiculously busy.
You may be dealing with work pressures, children or teenagers, aging parents, relationships, finances, and all the general life admin that somehow multiplies when nobody is looking.
Stress matters in IBS because it can affect bowel movement and the way sensations from the gut are processed, making an already-sensitive digestive system feel even more reactive. This is also why blaming everything on food can send you slightly round the bend.
Imagine you have exactly the same lunch twice. The first time you’ve slept well, you’re relaxed, you eat sitting down, and you’ve had a fairly normal morning. The second time you slept terribly, you’re stressed, you’ve already had three coffees, you eat in ten minutes while answering emails, and your bowel hasn’t moved properly for two days.
Your stomach kicks off afterwards and immediately you think, “Right. I obviously can’t eat that anymore.” Maybe. Or perhaps the food was only one small part of what was going on.
Poor sleep can make IBS even more unpredictable
Sleep is another thing I’d look at very closely if somebody told me their IBS had suddenly got worse in their 40s or 50s.
Sleep problems are common during the menopause transition, thanks to things such as hot flashes, night sweats, hormonal changes, and stress. Poor sleep may also contribute to worse IBS symptoms the following day, including abdominal pain and changes in bowel habits.
Then there’s the knock-on effect of being absolutely exhausted.
You drink more caffeine, meals become more irregular, and you move less because you’re running on fumes. None of those things automatically causes IBS, but together they can change the circumstances your digestive system is working under.
Now, I’m not suggesting for one minute that you need some ridiculously elaborate 12-step bedtime routine. But if your sleep became noticeably worse at the same time as your digestion, I certainly wouldn’t ignore it.
Your routine may have changed more than you realize
People with IBS become very good at analyzing what they eat. Sometimes a little too good, to be honest.
But we don’t always pay as much attention to when and how regularly we’re eating. Perhaps breakfast gets skipped because mornings are manic. Lunch happens whenever you get a chance, coffee keeps you going through the afternoon, and then you arrive at dinner starving.
Maybe you’re eating later, drinking less water, having a little more alcohol, or relying more on quick meals because life is busy.
Irregular eating habits may also play a part in IBS symptoms, which is why I’m more interested in somebody’s whole eating pattern than simply what they ate immediately before they became bloated.
Movement can change too. Perhaps you work from home now, sit more, or simply have less time for exercise. Physical activity can support bowel transit and may help IBS symptoms for some people.
And no, you don’t suddenly need to become a gym person. Walking, swimming, yoga, and moving more during your normal day all count.
Your bowel really doesn’t care whether your leggings match.
“Why can’t I eat foods I used to tolerate?”
This is one of the questions that causes the most confusion.
You’ve eaten a particular food for years without a problem and suddenly you seem to react to it. Surely you must have developed an intolerance?
Possibly. But not necessarily. I tend to think of digestive tolerance a bit like a bucket.
Stress puts something in the bucket. Poor sleep adds some more. Constipation adds a bit. Hormonal changes, irregular meals, alcohol, a large meal, or eating very quickly may add something too. Then you eat onions, bread, dairy, or whatever happens to be there when the bucket finally overflows.
Guess what gets blamed? The food.
And that is how people can end up gradually removing half their diet. Gluten goes. Dairy goes. Onions and garlic are next. Then beans become suspicious, somebody online tells you tomatoes are inflammatory, and before long you’re wandering around the supermarket wondering what the bloody hell you’re actually allowed to eat.
Food absolutely can affect IBS, and dietary changes can be extremely useful when they’re appropriate. But unnecessary restriction can create its own problems. I’ve said this before and I’ll keep saying it: I don’t want somebody with IBS to become brilliant at eating an increasingly restricted diet. I want them to understand their own triggers and tolerance rather than removing everything “just in case.”
Have your medications or supplements changed?
By our 40s and 50s, many of us are taking things we weren’t taking twenty years ago.
Prescription medicines, HRT, iron, magnesium, vitamins, pain relief, and other supplements may all have entered the picture. Some medicines and supplements can affect bowel habits, while other health conditions or previous surgery can complicate digestive symptoms too.
That doesn’t mean you should stop prescribed medication because your stomach has been playing up. Let’s be sensible about this.
It simply means that if your bowel habits changed around the same time you started something new, it’s worth discussing with your doctor or pharmacist rather than spending six months blaming bread.
What about men in their 40s and 50s?
Of course, men don’t get away without a midlife hormonal shift either!
You may have heard of the andropause, sometimes referred to as the male menopause. Testosterone levels generally begin to decline gradually from around the age of 30 to 40, often by around 1% per year.
For some men, this can mean feeling more tired, stressed, less motivated or interested in things, more irritable, frustrated or even downright emotional compared with how they felt in their 20s and 30s. And at the same time, many men notice changes in their digestion too, including more bloating and IBS-type symptoms.
So men deserve a little love here too. If your digestion seems to have changed in midlife, hormones may be part of the picture, alongside stress, sleep, eating habits, activity and everything else that tends to change as we get older.
Please don’t assume everything is “just your IBS”
When you’ve had IBS for years, it becomes incredibly easy to put every digestive symptom into the IBS box.
More bloating? IBS.
Different bowel habits? IBS.
New pain? Probably IBS again.
But if your symptoms are new, significantly different, or have changed persistently, please don’t automatically assume your old IBS diagnosis explains them.
Other gastrointestinal conditions can cause symptoms that overlap with IBS, so things such as rectal bleeding, unexplained weight loss, iron-deficiency anemia, or a persistent unexplained change in bowel habits should be discussed with a healthcare professional.
I’m not saying that to frighten you, but an IBS diagnosis shouldn’t become a reason to ignore something genuinely new.
So… why has your IBS suddenly got worse?
There may not be one wonderfully simple answer. Annoying, I know.
Your 40s and 50s can bring changes to your hormones, sleep, stress levels, eating habits, movement, medications, and general routine, all while your gut-brain connection is merrily responding to what’s happening around it.
For women, perimenopause and menopause may certainly be part of that picture, and for men, andropause may be part of it too. But I don’t think it’s helpful to automatically blame hormones for everything. Equally, I don’t think it’s helpful to immediately assume you need to remove another food.
Have a proper look at what has changed.
When did your symptoms become different? What was going on around that time? Has your sleep changed? Your stress? Your bowel pattern? Your meal routine? Your activity? Have you started any medications or supplements?
Sometimes things begin to make much more sense when you stop looking only at your last meal and start looking at your life as a whole.
That is something my own years of living with IBS taught me long before I ever became an IBS Coach. Your digestive system doesn’t exist separately from everything else going on in your body. And understanding why your own gut behaves the way it does is far more useful than simply getting better and better at avoiding things.
Need help working out what’s changed?
If your IBS used to be manageable and now seems to be making up a completely new set of rules, there may be more going on than one problem food.
If you’re struggling with IBS, bloating, food reactions or digestive discomfort, book a FREE Gut Health Call and let’s discuss what has changed, what may be triggering your symptoms and what might actually help.
About Helen Jane
Helen Jane is a qualified Nutritional Therapist and IBS Coach with over 11 years of experience helping people reduce IBS, bloating, food intolerances, digestive discomfort, and low energy through practical nutrition and lifestyle changes. As founder of Your IBS Freedom, she specialises in helping people improve gut health naturally using food as medicine, without restrictive fad diets or unnecessary overwhelm, supporting clients across the UK, Europe, and the USA. Read client success stories and reviews here: My Reviews
Disclaimer
This blog is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for personalised medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment from your GP or healthcare professional.
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